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How To DM Someone in Discord

Posted by Joseph on January 8, 2019

Being a part of a Discord server is great. You likely have plenty of folks to talk to in an all -inclusive setting where everyone can chime in or respond to anything anyone is saying. Although this may be enjoyable for the most part, you may have a few things you’d rather keep quiet between you and another member. You may also want to include friends who currently don’t hold a membership to the same server you’re in. For moments when a private conversation is necessary or preferred, Discord offers Direct Messages (DM) and Group Chat.

“So what exactly is a DM and how do I make one?”

Direct messages are conversations you can have one-on-one with other members of the Discord community. These are private conversations between you and those others who you may choose to attach to the conversation. DMs and group chats are perfect for behind the scenes trash talk, chiding, and taking part in a “members-only clique” get together, especially for those without a mic for voice chat.

As a subset of Discord’s Friends List, you can send direct messages and start group chats regardless of the server in which you’re all currently engaged. I’ve created a comprehensive walk-through providing exactly what you’ll need to get your Discord messaging game on point.

Sending A Direct Message in Discord

So you want to learn how to send direct messages? Not a problem. We’ll cover that as well as how to Group Chat with friends further down the article. I’ll break it down on how exactly to this beginning with creating DMs using PC/Mac, Android, and iOS devices.

 

Direct Messages Via PC and Mac

  1. Login to Discord. Currently the only way to send a DM is if the person is on your Friend List or if they are a member of a server of which you too are currently a member.
  2. To DM a friend, click the Discord icon at the top right of the screen and choose Friends from the menu list.
  3. Swap to the “All” tab if you want to see all friends available on your list or keep it on the “Online” tab if hoping to message a friend currently online.
  4. Scroll through your friends until you find the one you want to DM and then left-click him or her. This will open up a Direct Message between you. You can now enter your message in the text box at the bottom of the window, pressing the ENTER key to send.
  5. To DM a member of a server you too are a member of, login to the server by left-clicking on it from the server menu on the far left side.
  6. While on the server, scroll through the list of member names from the menu to the far right until you find who you’re looking for.
  7. Right-click the member’s name and from the dialog menu, choose Message.
  8. The Direct Message window will be pulled up and you can enter your message into the text box at the bottom. Press the ENTER key to send.

 

Direct Messages Via Android

  1. Login to Discord on your Android device.
  2. Tap over to the “ALL” tab which is located in the top-left corner of the screen.
  3. Choose the message recipient from the list of friends to open their profile.
  4. Tap the Chat Message button (white chat bubble over blueish background) to open a DM window with the selected individual.
  5. Bring up your keyboard by tapping the message box toward the bottom of the screen and enter in the message you want to send.
  6. Tap Send to see you message delivered. It will now be visible in the DM window to both you and the recipient.

 

Direct Messages Via iOS

  1. Login to Discord on your iOS device.
  2. Tap the Friends logo at the top-left corner of the screen. You may need to tap the triple white lines to get to that window, also located at the top-left.
  3. If you know the friend’s username, you can begin typing it into the text box. The box will likely have Find or start a conversation already in it. Or you can always scroll through your list of friends until you get to the one you want to DM.
  4. When you find the recipient, tap on their nametag to pull up a conversation window.
  5. Type your message into the chat box at the bottom of the screen.
  6. When ready, tap Send and your message will be visible in the conversation window to both you and the recipient.

 

Creating A Discord Group Chat

When it comes to creating a group chat, you’re only allowed to invite those who happen to be on your Friends List. Anyone you’d like to add to the conversation will need to be on your Friends List or you’ll need to add them to it.

Once all those you want to add to the Group Chat have been made friends, a new button labeled New Group DM will be available to you.

If you click on the button, a window will be pulled up with all of your friends (only those on the list). You can choose to either scroll through the list to locate the friends you want to add to a group chat or type their name into the search box. You can add up to 9 friends to a Group Chat, which, counting you makes a total of 10 Discord users.

Another way to open up a Group Chat is by adding additional friends to a conversation already in progress. Open up a DM in progress between yourself and a friend and at the top-right of the window, click the Add Friends To DM button. This keeps the DM available between you and the original recipient separate but open up a new conversation between the two of you and additional friends.

 

Kicking Members From the Group Chat

Anyone currently within the Group Chat can add additional members (up to the maximum). However, only the individual who started the Group Chat can actually kick anyone out of it. To remove a member from the Group Chat:

  1. To the right side of the window, locate the list of Group Chat members.
  2. Find the member you want kicked and right-click on the name.
  3. From the options provided, choose Remove From Group.

 

Group Chat Additions

Right-clicking on the Group Chat title will open up a list of options pertaining to the Group Chat. You can provide Instant Invites, Mute Players, Leave Group, or Change or Remove the GC icon.

You also have the option of changing the GC name by clicking on it at the top of the window. A Group Chat is not unlike a server text channel when it comes to what you can do. Add notes, use @mentions, and check out other user’s profiles easily.

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