I’m glad I found this thread because all of these things have been happening to me. I haven’t had a single complete conversation on Bumble yet. 5 matches with initial introductions and then ghosts. In every conversation, my match asks me another personal question, I go into the app to see the chat, come back a couple hours later, and it’s gone. Why in the world would someone go through the effort to ask a more detailed personal question to then just suddenly delete the app or unmatch me??? Especially after happening 5 times in a row.
There is something seriously wrong with this platform. I really like the idea of women initiated but there is a fundamental flaw. I messaged their support about this and the continue to claim it’s either: 1) unmatched, 2) account deleted 3) blocked.
If I can’t have complete conversations, I just don’t see any purpose in recommending this platform.
It isn’t to match up two people who have an interest in a common goal of being in a relationship. Basically, it’s an app meant to allow women to filter only the guys that will give them what they want. Sorry, guy, your purpose for using it(likely for a relationship than for a hook up) isn’t relevant.
Tried it once, matched with a woman and things were going well. Until she asked how much I made and if I could take care of her and her child. Now, most guys don’t want to be with a single mother period because of everything that goes with it but I had some basic requirements that, if met, I’d consider it. General provisioning and care is done by the biological parents. I have no problem with birthday/Christmas gifts and the occasional outing and even picking them up and spending time with them but the role of the non-biological parent is one of advice and support. Because believe me, he will not be given the authority of determining the care and morals the child will be raised with and the discipline that’s sometimes required. If a woman wants a man to secure another guy’s legacy without this and without cutting the loser that left her high and dry broke out of her life, RUN.
I met somebody in bumble and we dated for 6 mths. All is well and I trusted him when he suggested to go exclusive and wanted to get off the site and so i deleted my account. He started getting cold about 5 mths into the relationship and one day My niece and i signed her up on bumble and as i was showing her how to swipe we came across my BF profile. I confonted him and he said that he’s deleted his account and showed me snap shot of bumble software errors that it retains profile even if its been deleted. Is this true or did he lied to me? And for that matter, i created a new profile again just to see for my self if he is indeed still active and i found his profile again. I swiped him to the right and he immediately showed on my hive,so I immediately wanted to connect to test if its possible he really is active but as i was initiating the first move all of a sudden it said oooopps this person expired . What is all that mean?
Can a guy swipe left before you get a chance to swipe right on them? I had my eye on a guy but waited to swipe right and when I came back, he was gone.
I’ve just had a couple of matches disappear today. They may have unmatched me, but before they went, I clicked on the conversation to have a look and got an error message along the lines of “Something went wrong, we are doing our best to fix it”. Sorry, I can’t remember the exact wording!
Has anyone ever received a false notification of a message? Sent a match a message, notified he responded, but there was nothing there. Responded saying if he sent something it didn’t come through. Then another notification of a message, that didn’t appear. Was told it may be a false notification by customer service.
To all girls here who are lamenting on their matches. I would say there are no glitches on Bumble. We unmatch girls purposely. Being a guy, let me tell you a secret. The “real’ or “normal” guys would easily sniff out that you are just wasting their time. If he is asking for your number, or he has shared his number and if you like him too, never ever let him wait. If you do and they are normal, they will unmatch. Only jerks or players or desperate would keep on negging you even if you ignored their plea to meet you on other channels.
Why would a guy give me his personal and work email and say they’d like to meet and then stop replying after I gave them suggestions for ways to meet up? This is after having a back and forth conversation on Bumble chat.
I was talking to a guy for a couple days and I thought our conversation seemed to be going pretty well because both of us kept the convo going but I looked a couple hours later after I recharged my phone to reply to him but his profile was no longer on my list. Why is this doing this. This is the second time this has happened and I don’t have any other forms of communication with either of the guys.
I have been unmatched a few times with people I suspected were unmatched as a glitch on bumble. Now I have proof. Today I was unmatched with two guys..
Scenario 1, I just received a reply in bumble from a guy I had been slowly chatting with for a few days. He sent me his phone number and asked me to call him to set up a time to meet. Next thing I know we are unmatched. I never saved the number.
Scenario2. Same day I am also unmatched with another guy. However this guy and I have been talking off the app. He asked me if I unmatched with him. I did not. He also said he did not unmatched me. Both of these two matches unmatched at the same time. Bumble has a glitch and they will not address or admit to you. You are not going crazy these people that you have spent time talking to could very well be unmatched through a glitch on bumble.
THey may be lying to you. They dont want you to see their location so they unmatch. Once numbers are exchanged, what’s the point of communicating on the app also.
thank you for posting that! It has happened several times; just today a guy gave me his email and I sent back a number that he could use to test me (an alternative #) and boom—GONE! It is so infuriating – it happened so fast I didn’t have time to even write down his phone number…
I was talking with someone online and he just had emailed and when go to look out said deleted user. This is the 2nd time it’s happened, b ou t I know I did not delete them or unmatch. How can I fix this?
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There is something seriously wrong with this platform. I really like the idea of women initiated but there is a fundamental flaw. I messaged their support about this and the continue to claim it’s either: 1) unmatched, 2) account deleted 3) blocked.
If I can’t have complete conversations, I just don’t see any purpose in recommending this platform.
Tried it once, matched with a woman and things were going well. Until she asked how much I made and if I could take care of her and her child. Now, most guys don’t want to be with a single mother period because of everything that goes with it but I had some basic requirements that, if met, I’d consider it. General provisioning and care is done by the biological parents. I have no problem with birthday/Christmas gifts and the occasional outing and even picking them up and spending time with them but the role of the non-biological parent is one of advice and support. Because believe me, he will not be given the authority of determining the care and morals the child will be raised with and the discipline that’s sometimes required. If a woman wants a man to secure another guy’s legacy without this and without cutting the loser that left her high and dry broke out of her life, RUN.
Scenario 1, I just received a reply in bumble from a guy I had been slowly chatting with for a few days. He sent me his phone number and asked me to call him to set up a time to meet. Next thing I know we are unmatched. I never saved the number.
Scenario2. Same day I am also unmatched with another guy. However this guy and I have been talking off the app. He asked me if I unmatched with him. I did not. He also said he did not unmatched me. Both of these two matches unmatched at the same time. Bumble has a glitch and they will not address or admit to you. You are not going crazy these people that you have spent time talking to could very well be unmatched through a glitch on bumble.